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7 Weeks Sober (49 Days) Talking my way to sobriety

Posted by Sober Tony on April 4, 2017 3 Comments

Today, I’ve got 49 days of sobriety. That’s 7 weeks without alcohol. The longest period I can remember in 10 years.

The math is fuzzy, but here is my estimate of the 5 year before recovery.

  • 1825 total days
  • 1675 days drunk (often 2x per day)
  • 150 days sober (3o per year)
  • 8% sober… 92% drunk

In all that time, only one person said, “You might have a problem drinking, maybe.”

And she was a meth mule.

7 Weeks is Just a Start

92% of the time I was drunk … and I kept my mouth shut about it.

I lied to myself and to everyone else about my addiction. I was ashamed, even terrified that someone might discover my ugly truth. The stigma of alcoholism made it clear.

You’re weak. You’re defective. You’re choice. You deserve what you get.

Nearly everyone says addiction is a disease, but that’s not how they treat us.

The shame of my addiction (and related bad choices) pushed me over the edge. I ran away from my family, like 1700 miles, and landed in a Caribbean ghetto.

Except by some miracle, I found a way to fight back. Today my addiction is in remission, and there is real hope that I might live through this mess.

By ever score I’m a loser – except the sober count.

I’ve got $581 in my bank account. I owe $54,624 in credit cards and can’t even pay for my divorce lawyer. I haven’t seen my kids in 74 days. Most of the numbers in my life suck.

But I’m finally in recovery — seven weeks of sobriety!

My counter is the only happy math I’ve got right now. It’s the only scoreboard where I’m winning. I’m ok with that, because fighting addiction is all that matters today.

Then this guy happened…

@psantoroLESC pic.twitter.com/MKFFOFnqHF

— Sober Tony (@sobertony) April 2, 2017

My original tweet celebrated my sober count. It earned 15 retweets, 127 likes, and 29 positive replies. Even Mr. Negative apologized and claimed “there was a misunderstood.”

What amazed me is all the recovery friends on Twitter willing to back me up. When they say “good job” it means something. They have been in the addiction trap and now everyday of freedom is worth celebration.

Here’s the deal.

People doubted me from day one. I doubted myself from almost every day the first month. People who share my house were not impressed when I said I quit drinking:

You always promise you’re going to change, but it’s always the same. You always break your word.

That was the tough love I needed to face the alcohol withdrawal days.

I’ve been writing about recovery since day zero, through my 6 month relapse, hitting rock bottom, and now finally going sober for life.

I don’t have time for humility, I’m not keeping quiet until I prove myself. I’m going to walk into this fight like Muhammad Ali.

I’m going to run my mouth and then fight like hell to back it up.

Self doubt isn’t an option. Keeping quiet isn’t an option.

That’s my update for after going sober for 7 weeks. Leave a comment to share your experience.

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About Sober Tony

Tony is the founder and editor of Daily Recovery Club. He is a widely respected authority (in his own mind). He's just trying to live a little longer and a lot stronger.

This blog is not professional or medical advice, rather a support community for others suffering from alcoholism. We are all experts on failure, starting over, and trying to laugh at the absurdity of it all. Find him on Twitter @soberTony

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  1. Ryan S says

    November 27, 2018 at 9:24 pm

    Hi Tony,
    Seven weeks sober today for me. I googled “seven weeks sober” and landed here lol. I drank my face off for years and struggled to stop. I woke up 7 weeks ago after a weekend binge with an unexplainable black eye, bloody gash on my face and a torn ligament in my thumb. After explaining to my wife and kids that I’m an alcoholic and losing the battle (no surprise to them) I decided to get clean once and for all. It’s been rollercoaster ride and amazing journey of self discovery. I like your style, I struggle with too many rules. I hope you’re staying sober and doing well. I’m going to check the site out some more.

    Sober Ryan

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    • Sober Tony says

      December 14, 2018 at 9:36 am

      Today I’m good but its not a straight path. some days really really suck

      Reply
  2. Patty Camp says

    May 14, 2021 at 10:09 pm

    Today is my 51st day without a drink. I am 75 years old – just diagnosed with breast cancer. Pretty sure alcohol abuse caused the cancer. Too late now.

    Reply

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