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84 Days (12 Weeks) Sober: I’m moving back to the USA

Posted by Sober Tony on May 9, 2017 8 Comments

I’m not good with compliance.

I keep doing things back-ass-ward with my recovery, especially with the ‘no major decisions’ rule.

I’ll justify the move with bullet points, because they feel more authoritative.

  • Living in the USA is the best way to make amends to my children. If I’m doing the program, this is what the 9th step means right now.
  • I don’t have good options for AA meetings in the Haitian ghetto.
  • My bipolar meds and counseling are all back in USA.
  • I don’t own much, so moving isn’t a big hassle.

So today, I’m updating my Twitter profile to claim Louisville, KY as my home (again).

The big drama comes in leaving my girlfriend behind. ???? She doesn’t have a Visa and that’s a slow process. It will be good for me to get some space while I get my recovery worked out.

She understands the move, even if she doesn’t believe I’ll last more than a few weeks.

Bon voyage ???????? ✈️ ????????

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About Sober Tony

Tony is the founder and editor of Daily Recovery Club. He is a widely respected authority (in his own mind). He's just trying to live a little longer and a lot stronger.

This blog is not professional or medical advice, rather a support community for others suffering from alcoholism. We are all experts on failure, starting over, and trying to laugh at the absurdity of it all. Find him on Twitter @soberTony

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  1. Untipsyteacher says

    May 9, 2017 at 12:17 pm

    That sounds like a good plan, Tony.
    I am sorry you have to leave your girlfriend, but maybe you can go visit her once in awhile?
    Happy 84 days!
    xo
    Wendy

    Reply
    • Sober Tony says

      May 9, 2017 at 2:02 pm

      I’m a total mess about it. Full blow panic attacks all morning, but it’s going to be good … As soon as it stops bro so bad ????

      Reply
  2. oregongirlsite says

    May 9, 2017 at 1:29 pm

    I’m 80 days behind you, Tony. ???? That makes 4 for me today! So glad you are moving back. For many reasons.

    Reply
    • Sober Tony says

      May 9, 2017 at 2:03 pm

      Thank for the encouragement but we’re both doing today…. So really it’s even ???? ????????

      Reply
  3. Hearon (HD) says

    May 9, 2017 at 8:05 pm

    Tony: it is absolutely none of my business and I only wish you the best, but for what it is worth I think this is a good (adult) decision. All the best to you.

    Reply
    • Sober Tony says

      May 9, 2017 at 9:44 pm

      Thanks friend. It’s a painful process, even if nothing is forever.

      Going back means putting my recovery first – even if where I was at helped me get this far. I feel like reconciliation with the kids is a big step for me.

      Reply
  4. Susanne Blumer says

    May 11, 2017 at 7:22 am

    You know what I think! And I’m proud of you. ❤️

    Reply
    • Sober Tony says

      May 11, 2017 at 10:05 pm

      Thank you.

      Reply

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